What Doctors Really Think About Seniors


Ageism in healthcare is a pervasive and damaging form of discrimination that can compromise the quality of care older adults receive. This bias manifests in tangible ways, from diagnosis to treatment decisions. Understanding these realities is the first step toward self-advocacy. Here are five uncomfortable truths about ageism in medicine and actionable strategies to ensure you receive fair and respectful treatment.




**Truth 1: Rushed Judgments Due to System Pressures**

Healthcare providers often work under significant time constraints, which can lead to relying on mental shortcuts. Older patients may be unfairly labeled as "complex" or "costly," resulting in shorter, less thorough consultations.

*   **How to Advocate:** Come to appointments prepared with a concise, one-page medical history and a clear list of your concerns. Proactively request dedicated time to discuss your specific needs.

**Truth 2: Symptoms Dismissed as "Just Aging"**

A common form of medical gaslighting occurs when symptoms like pain or fatigue are written off as an inevitable part of growing older. This dangerous assumption can delay critical diagnoses for treatable conditions.

*   **How to Advocate:** If a symptom is dismissed, ask for the medical evidence supporting that conclusion. Maintain a dated journal of your symptoms and request to be evaluated using the same standards applied to a middle-aged patient.





**Truth 3: Automatic Assumptions of Cognitive Decline**

There is a widespread, often incorrect, presumption that all older adults have cognitive impairment. This can lead to clinicians oversimplifying information or underestimating a patient's ability to manage their own care.

*   **How to Advocate:** Briefly sharing your professional or educational background can help establish your capabilities. Insist on detailed explanations of your treatment plan and consider using health apps or trackers to demonstrate your engagement.

**Truth 4: Medication as a Form of Control**

In some cases, medications, particularly psychotropic drugs, are prescribed not to treat a diagnosed condition but to sedate or manage a patient's behavior—a practice known as chemical restraint.

*   **How to Advocate:** For any new prescription, always ask, "What specific condition is this medication treating?" Research the drug independently and request clear, measurable health goals that the prescription is intended to achieve.

**Truth 5: Age as a Barrier to Treatment**

For certain procedures like surgeries or advanced therapies, a patient's age may be used as a sole reason to deny care, based on subjective value judgments about longevity rather than individual health.




*   **How to Advocate:** Pose the direct question: "Would you make the same recommendation for a 45-year-old with my same health profile?" Never hesitate to seek a second opinion from a different provider or specialist.

**Empowerment Through Preparation**

The most powerful defense against ageism is proactive self-advocacy. Keep an updated file of your medical records, test results, and medications. Prepare for every appointment, insist on clear explanations, and choose providers who specialize in or are known for their respectful care of older adults. By being organized, informed, and assertive, you can champion your right to compassionate and equitable healthcare at every stage of life.